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The Returning Threshold Workshop Tuesday November 17, 2026 · $35 Register →
Tend the Winter Solstice Tuesday December 15, 2026 · $15 Register →
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The Returning Threshold Workshop
Join us on Tuesday, November 17, 2026 from 5:30-8:30 pm CT to mark the threshold of autumn into winter. Before the dark fully settles and the year turns inward, it is time to sit with what has been lost and what still remains.
Samhain, the Celtic festival marking the thinning of the veil between the living and the dead, falls at the end of October, close alongside All Saints. By November 17, that threshold has passed, but what it opened often hasn't closed. This three-hour evening lives in that in-between: the veil settling again, but grief still asking to be met.
We'll spend the evening in seasonal wisdom, enneagram insight, and creative practice, moving through the reflective depth of Enneagram Type 4, the type most fluent in loss and meaning-making, and also the type most likely to build an identity out of what's missing. This time of year isn't about staying inside the ache. It's returning to it without letting it become the whole story.
You don't need to know your type, and you don't need to know anyone else in the room. We're not teaching you the Enneagram, we're giving you a meaningful experience to move through, alongside others doing the same. Come as you are, participate at whatever level feels right, nothing is required to be shared aloud.
This is one evening, no ongoing commitment. This workshop is for every Enneagram Type, helping us all learn from 4s. (This is the second of three Threshold Workshops this year, each one opening a different season with a different lesson from the Enneagram's Idealist Triad.)
What’s Included
Seasonal grounding in the Samhain and All Saints traditions, and what it means to honor loss.
Space to sit with the depth, longing, and returning of Type 4, no Enneagram background required.
A guided creative practice to hold what autumn has revealed to us, no artistic skill needed.
A threshold crossing into winter, with practices to carry into the dark half of the year.
Like all our offerings, you will leave with a companion guide that will help you continue the journey at home.
Cost
$35 per person
FAQ
Can I bring a friend? Absolutely. It’s even better if you know some of the people involved. You could invite them to come to your house to share a screen, or to log in from wherever they live.
Do I need a zoom link? Yes. One will be sent to you in the week before the event.
Will I need anything? Yes. This is an interactive and hands-on evening. We will share a short and simple supply list the week before the event.
Questions?
November 17, 2026 | 5:30 to 8:30 pm CT | Virtual
We'll spend the evening with enneagram insight, seasonal wisdom, and creative practice, engaging with the wisdom of Samhein and Enneagram Type 4 to help us process our grief.
Tend: The Winter Solstice
Join on Tuesday December 15 from 6:30-8:00pm CST for an evening of reflection, teaching, and practice as we approach the solstice. Together, we’ll quiet our lives, set intentions for how we want to enter the season ahead, and deepen into this threshold of transition. As the light wanes, we’ll reflect on how to decorate the darkness.
What's Included
Participate in a live gathering where we will experiment together with a mix of enneagram exploration and creative practice to honor this time of the year.
Receive The Solstice Companion, a downloadable guide filled with poems, prompts, and practices to help you make the December 21 solstice a meaningful turning point in your year.
Cost
$15 per person
FAQ
Can I bring a friend? Absolutely. We will cap this event at 20 to keep it conversational, but it’s even better if you know some of the people involved. You could invite them to come to your house to share a screen with you, or to log in from wherever they live.
Do I need a zoom link? Yes. One will be sent to you after registration and before the event.
Will I need anything? Yes. This is an interactive and hands-on evening. We will share a short and simple supply list the week before the event.
Questions?
A gathering on Tuesday December 15, from 6:30–8:00pm CT, as we prepare for the arrival of the longest night of the year.
Join an evening of reflection, teaching, and practice as we approach the solstice. You'll also receive The Solstice Companion, a downloadable guide filled with poems, prompts, and practices to help you make December 21 a meaningful turning point in your year.